I was assisting a friend who is a caregiver. I was amazed at the co-dependency between her and her mother. Neither had very much independence. They both have health issues that may be related to this lifestyle.Are they aware of this situation? Are they willing to discuss it? The most important question is, are they willing to act on it to make their lives more balanced? I suggested activities to free them on occasion from their usual routine. Neither of them were receptive. This isolation can cause anxiety, confusion, stress and even depression. I will continue to offer ideas that may encourage them to take breaks from each other.