Can you remember the first time you started denying something? Was it when you accidentally lost something from an elementary teacher? Was it a matter of convenience in your preteen years? Has denial continued to be a part of your life as you have become a mature and responsible adult? Many caregivers deal with denial on a day-to-day basis. Sometimes we tell ourselves our loved ones are constantly improving or their health situation is not as bad as it seems or it is going to get better. We just have to allow more time and patience. Have we convinced ourselves that our denial is reality or are we continuing to “pull the wool” over our own eyes? As we continue to avoid the reality of our loved ones aging and ailing process, how are we helping ourselves to be more effective caregivers? What steps are you taking to overcome the denial of your caregiving relationship? I would be pleased for you to share with our community. Leave your message for others to share.