Friends are like jewels. Some are precious. Others are semi-precious. A few can be considered rare. Occasionally we continue to hang onto those who are like costume jewelry – an added accessory. The precious friends are there when we need them. They answer our calls. The semi-precious will assist us if it is convenient for them. The rare friends are there no matter what. Sometimes they show up before we are aware we need their support and assistance. The friends who are like costume jewelry just want to be around for the photographs. As caregivers, all of our friends play a role in our lives. It is a relief to know that the stresses and concerns of caregiving are shared by those who have our interest at heart. What kind of friend are you? Diamond, ruby or emerald?
Acts of Kindness for Caregivers
As we get closer to the rush and excitement that comes with the holidays, have you thought of performing acts of kindness that do not require shopping or baking? One of the most memorable acts is an unexpected visit to a caregiver or a caring family. The time spent with this family or person will be more treasured than the time spent in the malls shopping for a gift. I remember visits with seniors, loved ones and friends. When I was very young, the visits seemed boring. I sat there listening to the adults talk about their experiences. As I got older, I remember visiting some of those same adults because I wanted to or had it become a part of the family tradition? They shared some of those same stories from my childhood. Today, most of those seniors have made their transitions. I still think about the visits. It is a calming experience. Will you share your time this holiday season with a caregiver or a senior who will be overjoyed with your visit with or without tidings.