We are in the second quarter of 2010. Some of us are still determining if we call it two thousand ten or twenty ten. Whatever your decision, where are you now? How are you feeling about your life? Are you doing things that you want to do or are you continuing to do what you think others think you should be doing? Are you a caretaker? Who is taking care of you? Where do you rank yourself on your list of priorities? Are you continuing to evolve? Have you made plans for a summer vacation? Have you added spring colors to your wardrobe or even changed some of the more wintry elements of your home? Let’s make 2010 more about you. Call or send me an email with some of your ideas for continuing to make this your year. Where are you now?
Why Wait?
As a part of my weekly interview series, I did a tour and a pre-interview with a cemetery counselor. This was really an interesting 60 minutes. I viewed the huge facility. There were mausoleums, and underground graves. There was a crematorium. There was absolutely no pressure, just information.br /When we are truly informed, we are able to make better decisions. The grounds were beautiful. The atmosphere was serene. Pre-need services are offered at a greatly reduced rate than at-need services. A great percentage of the population decides to wait. The emotions are much too strong to make this kind of decision at the time of death. How do you justify your decision not to decide to purchase pre-need cemetery services? Call or visit your local cemetery for a tour today.
Your Award
The recent and upcoming award shows receive our attention. The celebrities look beautiful. The events appear to be fun. How often do you give awards? No, there does not have to be a trophy or a certificate. Words are so important. Actions are more important. Who deserves an award from you? When was the last time you received an award? Let’s add the special touch and give yourself an award today. Later, today bestow a special unsuspecting award on a very deserving person in your life. We are all worthy.
Caregiver Guilt
When we have been thrust into the arena as the major caregiver for a family member, we are often riddled with guilt. We have to realize it’s not our fault. Stop the blame, shame and criticism. We are doing what we think is necessary and beneficial for our loved ones. We must remember we also have to take care of ourselves. Support groups are terrific avenues to share feelings, overcome some of the anxieties and stresses that are a natural part of care-giving. Share your thoughts and feeling with us.