We are courageous, strong and have a sense of self-belief in our abilities as caregivers. Does that mean we are confident caregivers? We feel safe and understood as we carry on with our day-to-day caregiving responsibilities. Or do we?
After days, weeks, months and years as the primary caregiver for a loved one, do we feel appreciated? Do you begin to look at caregiving from a different perspective? Are you able to draw confidence from others?
Has the confidence you once exuded turned into control? There is a significant difference?
Confidence allows us to give and to continue to receive. It allows us to hear and to listen to the voices and challenges of others. Confidence nurtures the wonderful caring spirit in the midst of our caregiving. Of course, there are times when time-outs are essential and many times when they are sought after.
Controlling a caregiving situation can lead to unfavorable domination, commanding and unnecessary micro-managing.
Are you a confident caregiver or a controlling caregiver? During the next few days, observe your actions. Make necessary adjustments. You can do this.
How are you handing your emotions? How comfortable are you as you focus on the real intention of your caregiving? Sometimes re-evaluating the scenario is needed. Share your thoughts and feelings with others.
Let’s continue to honor our gifts and talents and reach out to others as necessary.
A support system is always helpful as we focus on caring for ourselves and those who depend on us for care.
Confidence allows you to let go of what no longer works as we move more toward feeling safe, understood and accepted. That’s the confident caregiver.
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