Did you take a summer vacation yet? Do you want to? Where had you planned to visit? Are you afraid or hesitant to travel with your loved one who has dementia? Where are you thinking of going? Is it far from your current home? Will you be able to drive? I would suggest you plan the trip carefully. With careful planning, will be easier and you and your loved one will have many experiences to share. Imagine a train ride. The beautiful scenery may be relaxing for you and your relative. You will be able to get exercise on the train — walking from car to car. A great part of any vacation is meeting new people. Most people are nice and accommodating. The plane ride may be faster, but it may also be more discomforting — standing in long lines, long waiting periods at the airport, more people. Be sure your loved one is well-rested prior to the trip. Remember to have all medications readily available. If your loved one has dietary restrictions, have the required foods on hand. This trip may trigger memories for the two of you. Make it a memorable occasion. Take lots of pictures. Point out landmarks and other points of interest. Take it easy. Some days may be designated as rest days where you stay in the hotel or nearby for most of the day. On the days when more activities are planned, plan a couple activities per day. Be prepared to answer the same questions many times. “Where are we? Where are we going? When are we leaving? How long will we be here?” It is acceptable to answer the question with a question or to even change the subject. It is about being together. This is a new experience for you and for your loved one. Let me hear about your travel plans and send picture of those great trips.
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